
I tend to agree with the opinion of many others about this matter that this is a matter of personal conflicts between a few people. However I also feels that this problem is also caused by a groups of people with vested interest.
I would like to explain this in the form of an example. The Jews are a small group of people in the middle East. They however hold key positions and influence in the United States that they are able to influence they policies of that country. When they see a threat to their positions, they use America to destroy this threat. Take Iraq for instance. Iraq is the only Muslim country in the Middle East that threat Israel's position in the Middle East. So , they used the United States to come in and destroy the country.
Similarly I feel that there are people in our community with vested interest. There are using their influence to create discord among the Malabaris to use it to their own interest.
How to solve this problem
There is no simple solution to this problem. We have to get these people to meet and come to agreement on conflicting matters. We know that this is not easy, getting out people together, especially since there are vested interest involved. I have tried this myself before. However this must be done at one time for the good of the society